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Tuesday, November 6

LIVING INTO DAY OF THE DEAD

As if the deceased are among us

Day of the Dead is observed in Ajijic and across Mexico on November 2nd. It’s called Día de los Muertos and I get to be a part of it.

Creativity in honor of ancestors
Preparations are well underway days before. 

I’m discovering that it’s not a scary Halloween type of holiday, but rather an important family celebration.


So colorful
I’m going to the edge of town where bones of ancestors are are  buried. Families come together to tidy up and decorate these grave sites lavishly .

I meet a woman whose sister's baby died in 2017
On this day, November 1st, the children who have died young are especially remembered.  It’s called Dia de los Muertos Ninos.

Fresh paint is applied and flowers especially marigolds festoon the site. Food is offered.  Pictures and favorite toys for children and other mementos for adults stir story-telling. Religious symbols abound along with colorful streamers and other bright decorations. Each grave site becomes an artistic creation.

Special foods and marigolds
Time at the graveside is not maudlin. Rather than deny death or grieve endlessly, Mexican people have a culture of celebrating the lives of loved ones by enjoying favorite foods, telling funny stories, singing beloved songs and just having a good time. 

It’s as if the departed has returned for a day and the whole family turns out for the picnic.  

Can you see the marigolds leading the way?  Welcome home! 

I go from the cemetery to a special showing of the award winning movie, Coco. It tells the story of a boy who on the Day of the Dead enters the fanciful Land of the Dead in search of his Great Great Grandfather, a legendary singer. 

Living and deceased reunited in forgiveness
Through twists and turns the story unfolds and an appreciation of the meaning of family and Day of the Dead deepens. I recommend it.

In popular North American thinking, Day of the Dead is often seen as a chance for grown-ups to paint faces in ghoulish caricature. Perhaps fun, but not much more.

Mexican culture is different. Historians say Day of the Dead is rooted within indigenous culture – Aztec, Myan and others. With the coming of the Spaniards in the 16th century, the Church tried to ban it as pagan sacrilege. But they failed. The best they could do was attach All Saints and All Souls Day and make peace with Day of the Dead.

My friend, Beto, and I greet one another
So even through times of oppression and revolution and all sorts of discord, Day of the Dead remains a cultural bulwark. 

Deep in the Mexican spirit is pride in family and community connections that transcend death with unending love from generation to generation. 


A marvelous sight
Altars or Ofrendas are built in homes and around the walkways of the Central Plaza. 

On the ground, artistic talent creates intricate patterns. Using flower pedals (especially marigolds) and what looks like colored sawdust, they work for hours to honor the family, living and dead.  

My new friend tells me about his family
I meet a man on the Plaza who was born here and now lives in San Francisco. Yet, he still returns to Ajijic to greets long-time friends at the Ofrenda of his family. 

Even with me, a stranger, he tells stories of his mother and grandparents. I’m touched deeply.

Like Coco reminds us, family is most important. Always celebrate your ancestors.

Beautiful designs, but only for a day
Honoring the young


Just having a beer
My friend and I cozy up to Catrina

Of course, there are ghoulish figures in this celebration, but they have a deeper meaning than our North American Halloween.

These larger than life skeletal figures are called Catrinas and originated during the late 19th century, a period of class domination.


Posing just for us
Posada, a print maker,  was distressed by the rabid corruption and inequality of his era. 

So he created an image of an extravagantly dressed skeleton. It became a dramatic social leveler.  It spoofed upper class excess and haughtiness reminding them and everyone that in the end all humans – rich or poor - become naked bones.

Later Catrina was embellished by the famous Mexican artist Diego Rivera. He incorporated the image in his famous mural Sueño de una tarde dominical en La Alameda Central.


Over time, Catrina lost much of its social commentary, but it remains a reminder of human equality…not ghoulish Halloween.

It's true.  We all turn into bones. And from what I am seeing during Day of the Dead, Mexican people love their bones and the families they belong to.

It’s getting late, but around the corner from the Plaza is a spectacular display.

A part of the Wall of the Dead for the Living

Local artist Efren Gonzales has created a mural of bas-relief skulls attached to the outside of a long wall at a local school.  It stretches for nearly a block.


Once a year candles are lite

Each skull is named for an local resident, who has died , but is still remembered





So many everyday people

According to the artist, the idea is to "honor ordinary folks" and bring them closer to the living generation. 

So if you were to join me in passing along this wall some morning, you would likely hear children playing within the school yard and skulls looking forward in silent pleasure.

So as night grows deeper, candles are lit on the grave sites at the cemetery.  People view the  Ofrendas displayed on Ajijic Plaza. 


And I pause at several to say prayers and also remember my own family and ancestors. 

Maybe, they too have been lured by families remembering them, the marigolds and the carpet of beautiful images.  

Maybe they are joining with Mexican brothers and sisters in this grand celebration. I like to think that they are....

 It gives me a sweet smile to feel….We all are living into the Day of the Dead.

2 comments:

  1. So colorful. great photos. Viva Mexico! and happy birthday!

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  2. Yes, I'm finding Mexican culture to be both colorful and inspiring.

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