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Friday, March 27

AJIJIC, MEXICO IN PICTURES

Is one picture worth a thousand words?  
Let's give it a try....


Lake Chapala from a mountain vista  
Central to my adventure is Lake Chapala and the village of Ajijic on its northern shore.  Aijic emerged from the lives of indigenous tribes.  In ancient times, Ajijic meant a "place where water springs forth."  

Even today, Lake Chapala is still the largest lake in all of Mexico - 14 miles long. It's about 40 miles south of Guadalajara in the central region of Mexico.     

Long before the Spanish came, ancient peoples inhabited the lake area and came and went as the waters rose or receded.  They fished and raised their families here.  Much of their culture remains.    
Often I walk the lake shore in the evening.

Sunsets never disappoint
In the 1920s, intellectuals and dissidents came to Ajijic mixing with native people.  Another influx began in the 1950 - 60's.  And still another is happening now as mostly Canadians and North Americans look for retirement places.    


Art and Creativity are abundant companions 
in Ajijic.
Community beautification 
A Giant Lizard keeps watch
Fanciful Imagination enlivens a bare wall
Striking a pose in front of the Cultural Center

Carved from a log and painted by a local artist
More sunsets reflect across Lake Chapala. 
It's a beauty





Enjoy music, dance and more
After school, students practice in the park

A few ESL students share a song
Almost every month parades
and festivals flood through the streets



Ancient ritual reenacted

Mariachis are the soul of Mexican music

Original from Ajijic

Danza de los Voladores - Dance of the Flyers



Additional video from YouTube

Overlooking Ajijic Plaza 
where friends and family gather


Friday, December 27

A Xenophobic Christmas


A friend encourages me to go to Church on Christmas Eve. “Great music, It’ll put you into the Christmas Spirit.”

I'm already moving in that direction.

Earlier in the day, I travel to a neighboring village and help Operation Feed provide a hundred families with food and gifts and toys for their children. 

Families gather at Operation Feed
 The program is a collaboration between Mexicans and expats. A local Mexican leader and restaurateur spear-heads this and many other weekly projects.


Augustine and volunteers become a Christmas message
I meet two women who tell me more.

“We’re the egg ladies,” they announce. “We help sort eggs for distribution out into the village.”

They tell me it’s a volunteer job but they pay 200 pesos each time for the privilege. 

Imagine paying to volunteer. “It’s egg money,” smiles one of the women. “How else can we have money for eggs?”

The organization’s motto is... Stop The Hunger - Start The Hope. 

What a wonderful Christmas message, I think.  

I hop on a crowded bus and make my way to music and Christmas eve worship. 

As expected, the music is grand. Harmonies mix with congregational singing. We sing O Come All Ye Faithful – all 6 verses.

Nativity fills the Plaza at Ajijic
The sermon starts with a light hearted joke and promises to be brief. 

A story unfolds of expats celebrating a first Christmas in Mexico. “We had no church, but we made a large living space feel like church.” 

We settled into traditional Christmas worship even though we all had been transported from our homes to Mexico. It felt good to be with other expats.

Afterwards continues the Pastor, “we decide to go into the town to see how Mexicans celebrate Christmas. 

We had images of a Mexican procession moving slowly towards the Church with candles in hand,”

Posada in Mexico
But in stark contrast, we meet “utter chaos.”

Raucous, loud, alcohol out-of-control masses are some of the derogatory words used.  Negative caricatures follow in describing this Mexican Christmas celebration.  It jolts me.  

The sermon continues poking fun at Mexican behaviors.  A few congregants begin to snicker.  

I’m feeling more uncomfortable. To me, it sounds xenophobic. Why would a sermon poke fun at Mexicans on Christmas eve in Mexico? 

It must be something unconscious – maybe an ignorance saying that our way is the better way.  Could that be why some of the people around me are now laughing and not growing more uncomfortable as I am.  

The sermon concludes with Church bells says the Pastor. “At first, a single bell rings out.  And then others join in. Soon many bells are filling the town air and quieting the Mexicans,” reassures the Pastor. 

He ends the sermon with a broad smile.  Next is passing the Peace of Christ.

People clasp hands and a few hug one another. An older woman quickly clasped my hand and then just as quickly turns away. 

What's it like to be an outsider?
Huh? I look around towards others, but no one returns the glance or makes an effort.

Even the Pastor, when he comes down the aisle, skips my row. I’m not sure why. But it does make me feel like an outsider. 

It’s then that I decide to leave before Eucharist is served. I think, “It’s not a place for me.”

On the bus ride home, the sermon still rumbles within. I need an antidote.

I regain some comfort in seeing ordinary Mexican men and women with children in tow making their own way home. A guy plays his guitar and fills the bus with song. I pass him some money. 

 A young man stands to give up his seat. I shake my head, not necessary, but with a smile, he insists. Unexpected kindness on a crowded bus.

I get home. I watch a new movie, The Two Popes, and regain some perspective. I surf the net for sermons and Christmas messages.

In spite of my recent experience, I’m reminded how lively Christmas Spirit can be. 

Congregations do act with kindness, justice and peace and not just at Christmas time. They stretch themselves to welcome the stranger and embrace the forgotten.

Sure, the sermon was unfortunate. But ironically, it opens a broader reflection into the insidious persistence of xenophobia. 

It can slide into conversations and sermons without awareness. I feel a new urgency for the message of Christmas...especially here in Mexico.

Tear gas used on Mexican families at the border
Too many cruel and hate-filled images of Mexicans are in our media and on the lips of our leaders. 

Insistently Xenophobia seeps into awareness smearing good people who just want to live... a little differently.
Singing with some students at a Christmas party
I want to keep my focus on the kindnesses I’ve experienced here and embrace human differences that surround me everywhere in Mexico.

So when the bells ring out tonight for Christmas eve, I’ll be thinking of angelic words proclaimed to ordinary shepherds.

Peace on Earth and Good Will to All.

Older women belong here

I’ll keep remembering expats paying to volunteer and a Mexican leader who cares for the poor and lives  the Christmas message every week... 


End The Hunger. 

 Start The Hope




Monday, May 6

ANOTHER ADVENTURE - SRI LANKA and VIETNAM

I’m not OCD or at least I don’t think so.  But there are times when a good list can help.  This is one of those times.
This 74 year old is going on a Far-East Odyssey to Sri Lanka and then on to Hanoi, Vietnam.  My niece Jenny and her family recently relocated to Sri Lanka and I’m taking advantage of this family connection to visit.  
If you’re like me, you may not be clear about the location of Sri Lanka.  It’s an island Country. It’s beyond the Mediterranean Sea, beyond the Middle East and sits on the point of India nearly on the equator. It’s halfway around the world from Washington, DC. 
With my list in hand, I’m getting organized.  Clothing folded. Shoes and sandals. Check. Electronics categorized and art supplies readied.  Check again. Do I have too much…not enough? What’s missing? It’s the usual self-doubt I get before a new adventure.  
And then taking a break, I begin thinking.…
Why do I welcome adventures? Often people who read my Blog ask me this question. I wonder why...
Since retiring, there’s been Peace Corps service...twice, teaching English in Mexico and lots of travel in Europe, the Balkans, Alaska, Japan as well as numerous trips to visit my grand-kids and their wonderful parents. 

Indeed, I've developed a proclivity for adventure.

It’s not always been like that.  I come from an ordinary American family.  My parents lived in the same community all their lives. But we children moved away from coast to coast and in-between.

We have our love for one another as well as our dysfunctions.  And for me early on, life threw a big challenge.
As an 11 year old, I struggled with a dislocated hip that needed to be pinned back into place. Healing took a long time. It required three years on crutches just as I was entering Junior High.

Yikes. No fun. In a way, I felt like a cripple and I was.
Even when I got fixed, the negative self-image lingered.  Like a lot of kids, if not many, I stumbled through teen years.
Of course, what you face as a teen is not necessarily what you can become.  Out of feeling broken, I developed empathy for the marginalized in society.
No wonder, I joined the War on Poverty and served in the barrios of El Paso Texas.  I found meaning and purpose.
I was drawn to Seminary during a time for social change. I read Liberation Theology, learned about the biblical roots for the “Social Gospel” and discovered Saul Alinsky as my hero for community organizing.  
Seminary in the 60s was a place for free and challenging thinking.  I was growing and beginning to find myself.
Along the way, I picked up self-help books because I didn’t want to get stuck.  
A book entitled, The Artist Way, was most valuable.  It provided a structure of “Morning Pages” to dialogue with myself.  It encouraged wholeness, creativity and spirituality in all aspects of living.
Each morning I wrote 3 pages of free association - whatever came to mind.  Soon I was discovering hidden facets of my personality.  I was coming out to my strengths and dealing with weaknesses.  
I discovered a very active self-critic – an internal voice that’s quite good at limiting life.  
The critic says,  “NO, NO! You’ve never done that before.  You’re not capable. You’ll probably fail” and so forth.  I was accumulating a lot of hesitancy and regret.
But slowly I managed to quiet the negativity. I overcame fears and discovered the wonders of stepping "outside the box" - a cliche for sure, but not without its truth.
Taming the critic meant saying, “YES, this is going to be an adventure.  I don’t know what will happen, but it’ll be an experience not to miss.”  I found myself becoming less “risk averse” and more empowered.
A dear friend introduced me to Mind Mapping as a tool for more self discovery. I used it to clarify "what I really wanted" in living. Now I'll turn to it when I'm feeling stuck and want to move on.

You might want to give it a try.
Learn more about Mind Mapping here.
So here I am again. I'm on a plane and this time to Sri Lanka.  I’ve been on row 31F for a night and half-a-day.  It’s a long long trip.
Out the window, dawn is breaking over Dubai complete with a morning star. Beautiful.   
I begin imaging...
Opportunities for meeting locals, discovering the culture of a new country and welcoming the adventures of each new day.  All of this and more awaits me.
I smile to myself. This 74 year old is doing it and I've got a pretty good list to show for it....

Monday, February 15

What About God's Justice?

Social justice is the topic for this month's issue of Лице в Лице, our street magazine.

Klimentina, our Director, invited me to write a guest column.  I was honored, but...I didn't know what to say.  For almost two weeks I procrastinated with the deadline looming ever closer.  Then late one night, I Mind Mapped this article. 
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I have a habit of talking in my sleep.  Once as a young man, I woke up an entire household of friends yelling, “What about God's Justice?”   

It was a startling awakening for them and me too.  Ever since, it's become a question for my life. 

I started my career in 1972 after graduating from seminary.  Instead of church work, I soon began organizing social service and social change projects.  I remember going to work and seeing dozens of families waiting for some form of emergency help.  We paid for rent and utilities and gave out many bags of food thinking it was the least we could do. 

Once we discovered a homeless man sleeping in a crawl space under our front door.   A couple of old blankets and a half burnt candle on top of a cardboard box were home for him. That sight led to the creation of our community's first homeless shelter.  Nightly, we began giving warm meals and beds to people who had next to nothing thinking again it was the least we could do.  

I went on to promote social justice in Washington, DC.  I organized a national network of partner organizations to end childhood hunger.  Our research showed that 15 million children in America were at risk of hunger.  It was too much. 

Through my work, I became acutely aware of injustice, prejudice and the plight of marginalized people.  

Once I remember writing:
 "Poverty is a terrible thief.  More than depriving a neighbor of food or shelter or warmth, it steals away hope.  While other thieves may take things from the past, poverty steals a person's self-respect and future.”

Since coming to Macedonia, I’ve had conversations about social justice with my new friends.  I discovered that we share many of the same yearnings. 

Sometimes we look nostalgically to the past of what was or might have been.   For me it's remembering President John F Kennedy who among many things started the Peace Corps.  Maybe for Macedonians, it's Tito or another leader from another time.  Whatever the details, we remember the good old days.  Those were years filled with hope and promise or so we think. 

Unfortunately too often, we see the past through rose colored glasses.  We gloss over blemishes and ignore problems.  We make our leaders heroic and forget that they are imperfect humans, just like us. 

This year both Macedonia and America will have elections.  It seems that no matter from what political party, candidates make lots of promises. It can sound almost Utopian and we’re tempted to believe everything wholeheartedly. 

But I think we know better.  While some changes can move towards justice, others do not.  It seems that just when we rejoice over a new day dawning, another change comes along and moves us in the opposite direction.  
As Reinhold Niebuhr, an American Theologian and Ethicist famously said,

“Nothing worth doing is complete in our lifetime; therefore, we are saved by hope.  Nothing true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history; therefore, we are saved by faith.  

Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore we are saved by love. 
No virtuous act is quite as virtuous from the standpoint of friend or foe as from our own; therefore we are saved by the final form of love, which is forgiveness.”  (Irony of American History, page 63)

So what are we to do? 

Meeting with two of our Vendors.  They're our sales force for our street magazine and receive fifty percent of the cover price. More importantly, they've become friends.  
I’ve learned to live in the tension between the ideals of justice and political reality that falls short.  While some may despair, I think it’s good to still have ideals and to work for social justice.  

But we need to be vigilant about Utopian agendas that promise too much.  I think Niebuhr is right when he reminds us that we live in a world of partial justice. What we do will have flaws, but we do the best we know how to do at the time. 

Like a Macedonian friend reminds me, “We don’t know…what we don’t know.”   So it's a good idea to remain open to new possibilities and humble enough to realize that we too are blind in many areas.  What we manage to do for others is not perfect, but we can hope that it's making a difference. 

So I say, be more positive and do not dwell on negativity.  
An old proverb asks a question.  Is a glass of water half-empty or half-full?  

It's always half-full when people care with act of kindness especially to the marginalized of every background, race and religion.  It’s filling up when neighbors welcome strangers from Syria and beyond.  

It's almost brimming over when leaders forsake self-interest and strike out for social justice in laws and policies.  The glass becomes full whenever people join together for the common good. 

I think this outlook counters modern pessimism and the paralysis of negativity.  It does not deny that life is hard and unfair at times because it certainly is.  But it does urge us to live a life where our actions, in whatever partial and halting way, can and do make a difference.     

I found these words from Robert F Kennedy, an American leader, who like his brother was assassinated. They still speak to our time.   

Few will have the greatness to bend history itself, but each of us can work to change a small portion of events. It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped….

Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring, those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance.” (Address in South Africa, June 1966)


What about God's justice?  It's a question each of us answer as we live lives that can make a difference or not.